Looking to become a sugar baby but not really sure where to start? Getting into a relationship with a sugar daddy can be difficult if you’ve never done it before. And, can lead to a negative experience on both sides. This is why it’s important to understand exactly what you’re getting into before you begin.

The following 10 essentials are our recommendations for being successful in sugar relationships.

1 – Be sure that it’s the correct lifestyle for you.

A lot of people may be swayed at the start by the idea of a sugar lifestyle but like any new venture. But, it takes dedication and experience to become successful rather than overnight success. Do your own research and make sure it works for you before diving in head first. The last thing you want is to get into a relationship and get somebody else hopes up before realizing this isn’t for you and realizing both of your time has been wasted.

2 – Set your own expectations as a Sugar Baby

When most people think of a sugar lifestyle, they often think of a physical relationship in return for luxury gifts. Those can be cars, clothes, and jewelry, but this doesn’t have to be the case on either side. Some sugar daddies are only looking for companionship. Whilst some sugar babies may not be interested in luxury things. Instead, they may be looking for financial support for things like education, rent, travel, and other things. Make sure you set your expectations early so there’s no disappointment for either party.

3 – Find the right platform.

Do your research early on and find a serious and legitimate dating platform. That way, your chances to connect with someone real who matches what both are looking for are higher. A platform like Sugar.ie for instance gives you the chance to meet Sugar Daddies in Ireland with the same interests and the same location. Also, we protect you and your data, to make sure you have the most positive experience possible.

4 – Create a strong online Sugar Baby profile.

Your online profile is most people’s very first experience of you. So, you must make sure that it’s not only both strong and impressive but also stands apart from the crowd. Use the best and most professional-looking pictures you can take. Don’t use filters, and be honest about who you are and the things you like. The more open you are about the things you like, what you’re into, and what you’re looking for, the higher chance there is of you meeting the right person to match.

5 – Set strict boundaries.

The key to a long healthy sugar relationship is that both parties set strict boundaries that don’t get broken. If there are things you don’t feel happy doing, then simply don’t do them. No matter what the other person may say or think. Once your boundaries are in place and agreed upon, you can focus on the relationship, rather than worrying.

6 – Only go as far as you feel comfortable.

No matter what you think people may be looking for, never go beyond what you’re comfortable with. Taking part in things that make you feel unsafe or uncomfortable can jeopardize not only your well-being and mental health, but also the long-term prospects of the relationship itself. Make sure you speak up if you feel like your limits are being tested and explain to the other party how and why you feel uncomfortable. Communication is key for all relationships, especially one where there is an exchange between both parties.

7 – Be respectful.

Much like you must set your limits, sugar daddies also must have their own sets of rules. Remember everyone has their own schedule and responsibilities. Not everyone can dedicate their entire day to a sugar relationship, so be sure to be respectful. Your sugar daddy doesn’t have to support you every single second of the day unless previously agreed. So, remember to show them the same respect you’d expect them or anyone else to show you.

8 – Safety always comes first.

Dating/meeting someone for the very first time can be a daunting experience. So, make sure you put as many safety precautions as possible in place before meeting someone for the first time. Meet in a public place, use your own transport (don’t get picked up/dropped off on the first date), don’t overshare information (address/location, etc.), and if you’re able to, bring a chaperone if you need to. They don’t have to crash the date but bring someone to spend an hour in the same bar/restaurant as you. That way you’ve got someone with you for peace of mind. Anyone that respects your safety and well-being should have no issue with you bringing someone along… Providing they don’t interrupt!

9 – A Sugar Baby should be patient.

Finding the right sugar daddy for you isn’t going to be easy, especially if you are looking for someone you can connect with and make the most of your time together. So, this means that you may have to date a few potential daddies before finding the right one for you. The right sugar daddy for you will come so don’t be in a rush and worried if the first dates won’t go as expected. Like any relationship, it rarely happens overnight, and may take some time for you to understand exactly what you’re looking for, and for the right person to come along.

10 – Always stay positive and open-minded.

The desire to become a sugar baby is certainly not the norm, and a lot of people may look upon it strangely, but if you can make it work for you, it can be brilliant for both parties. Remain open-minded to the idea, and understand each other’s boundaries and preferences and it can be a hugely positive relationship for all involved.