The importance of intimacy in a relationship – sugar or not, is undeniable but discussing sex too early in the relationship is not ideal. If this is something you both are open to exploring, naturally this is a topic that begs a deep and thorough discussion. However, as anxious as you might be to know how good your sugar partner is in bed, it’s always best to build up to that conversation.

Of course, all men, not just Sugar Daddies, like confident and emotionally mature women who know their worth. Equally, Sugar Babies won’t easily fall for a man whose one and only intent is to get in their pants. It’s all about checks and balances and knowing what you bring to the table as a high-value sugar partner. It should take you at least a couple of dates to start considering the more complex nature of your relationship.

Build a Compatible Foundation

Measuring the potential level of intimacy between you and your partner without sex is simply getting to know them. Your first few dates should help you explore and set the tone for your budding relationship. This is the time to manage each other’s expectations and communicate clearly what you bring to the table. This can be as how much time you want to spend together, or how often you’ll communicate. Also how you talk about more serious topics like exclusivity and allowance.

Like a vanilla relationship, a sugar one works best when the partners know each other and are compatible on a personal level. For example, many Sugar Daddies appreciate a woman who is not only hot but also intelligent and able to have a cerebral conversation. The same goes for Sugar Babies, they don’t just want a man who’s rich. They want a gentleman who will treat them to a whole new lifestyle, not a couple of expensive trinkets.

Once this is established, talks of sex and intimacy become an easier and more natural topic of conversation.

Sexual Intimacy & Desire in Sugar Dating

Before anything else, you need to know exactly the kind of intimacy you desire and are willing to give in exchange. Chances are that you and your partner might want different things and it’s important to find a balance. Neither should settle for less or give more than you’re willing to, that’s not what sugar dating is about.

A great place to start might be discussing how often you what to be intimate and how these encounters would look. Speak openly about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. Particularly turn on’s, turn-offs, and sex acts that you are and aren’t willing to perform. These conversations are a great way to explore your partner’s desires and compatibility potential. Create some great sexual tension that can be released later.