Sugar Daddy? Despite their ever-growing popularity, sugar relationships are still largely misunderstood by the mainstream media and the public.

What many people seem to get wrong, is that sugar relationships see privileged men take advantage of naive young women. When the truth couldn’t be more opposite. What makes sugar relationships successful and more fulfilling than traditional relationships, is having a genuine connection and allowance for the Sugar Baby from the Sugar Daddy.

It’s a great way to get the most out of a relationship, without the burden of emotional commitment. This is because all sugar relationships have no strings attached.

The Spark for your Sugar Daddy

It’s true, a sugar relationship might not be as intimate or romantic as a traditional one, but it does come with its own unique, emotional bond. No relationship is forged without connection and what makes a sugar relationship particularly strong is the complete honesty and transparency in communication and compatibility.

Both partners need to know how to take care of and satisfy each other, which throws all the guesswork of a normal relationship out the window. Before progressing in a sugar relationship, both parties should, and more likely will discuss everything, from the length of the relationship, meeting frequency, and types of meetings to sexual preferences and even kinks. Nothing is off the table and as the partners progress through their arrangement, the level of comfort and trust only increases. And naturally, as your wants and needs change that openness of communication is always there.

A major part of this spark and compatibility is discussing the allowance.

How to ask about your worth

First of all, knowing your worth is the most important part of this whole thing. It bears reiterating that no matter what, your value is not defined by your perceived looks and attractiveness. So, what do you base your allowance on? like everything else in sugar dating, this should also be defined by mutual benefit. Your allowance should reflect how much you put into the relationship from your end and be compatible with your expectations. You need to consider your living expenses and lifestyle choices and offset them against your part in the relationship.

Key Take-Aways

When approaching the topic of allowance, it is important to remember that your Sugar Daddy is not an ATM. Even if they’re uber-rich and can afford it, they too have a limit. So, before you begin, it might be a good idea to ask what their budget is and play that to your advantage. You don’t want to ask for a number that’s too low or even worse, too high.

Don’t ever ask for an allowance without knowing his expectations. You should never settle for less than what you think is right. Sugar dating is not about compromise.