Every new hobby or lifestyle comes with its own set of acronyms, and sugar dating is no exception. One you’ll come across often is “POT” – used in sentences like “He’s definitely a POT.” So, what does it mean? Let’s clear that up.

POT stands for “Potential” and is used to describe a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby who you’re still getting to know – a potential match. While searching for your POT SD or SB, it’s important to keep an eye out for both red flags and green flags.

Red Flags to Look Out For

• An empty or vague profile.
• Only messages you about sexual topics.
• Avoids video calls.
• Messages or calls excessively.
• They avoid giving clear answers about who they are or what they’re genuinely looking for.
• They try to arrange to meet you in a private setting too soon.

Green Flags to Look Out For

• Doesn’t mind having a video call before meeting up.
• Happy to meet in a public setting for the first few dates.
• Be sure to tell at least one friend you’re going on a date and share your location. Always better safe than sorry.
• The conversation covers real topics: life, interests, values – not just small talk.

General Tips

• Stick to chatting on the platform you met on. If you decide to move things offline, don’t use your real phone number until you’re comfortable.
• Always use a nickname for your Sugar Baby profile.
• Take your time getting to know someone before deepening any commitment. That goes for any dating situation.
• Never share too much personal information until you’re comfortable and have built genuine trust.
• Do your research on sugar dating. Read our blogs and familiarise yourself with the community.
• Make sure the Sugar Daddy’s profile is verified.

Familiarise yourself with red flags, green flags, and general safety tips to get the best out of your sugar dating experience.